They dont mind killing u if thats what it takes. Am I going to take out all my frustrations on my wife and kids even???? I know someone with libra sun and moon who has all of the above mentioned as well. Sometimes I forget to get that information. One day, a Libran aquaintance (the now ex fiance of my partner's friend) tried to contact my partner one Christmas with a flurry of dramatic txts and voicemail as her fiance had dumped her. September 9, 2022 by Anna Howard. The normally outgoing sign can become isolated, and may binge-eat or become too lethargic to do anything. I don't know about everyone else but i was so stumped at myself this morning i resorted to blaming my sign. I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man! When the fact of the matter is, they no fodder to throw back. One Libran is not going to be the same as the other. They want tranquil homes decorated artistically. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. When sadness tips that balance, they can fall over. (Aquarius) With (Gemini) moon. Absolutely, every sign except for that poison scorp. Is your love language what you give or receive? Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. Negative Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine. OH YEAHHH The'yre some sexy bad azzes. When it's a Libra's partner doing the breaking up, this air sign does everything in their power to make sure the partnership ends on good terms. Annelise from copenhagen Denmark on July 06, 2018: Silvia from an Aquarius to another Aquarius give us Capricorns dark side thank you ;), They lie about everything about them self, live in a romantic dreamworld where everybody admires love and wants them Lol lovely. I'm a Capricorn we are smarter than this. I am pretty sure there are killers of all signsand actually if you've only found 5 twisted people in Libra, that in fact disproves your point. I searched under "Star signs related to types of crimes" and got the shocking result: Paedophilies = Librans. Libras are also the kings and queens of compromise, and they like making peace between others. Libras a diplomatic people we dont like to be mistreated or treated unfairly nor like it being done to other people yes I am lazy and charming and very indecisive but yes Libras are very sweet and loyal ppl but if we dnt get it back in return yes Im throwing a fit. They cant get enough of the sugary stuff. They know what needs to be done in order to get what they want,and its most likely theyll get it one way or another. I will never approach you or talk to you because I already gotten more than a 1k people that you know and I know on my side. I knew then she truly was that ugly person from Christmas. Then he stop talking to me. However I met a libra and she's like me but diffrent. Yes, lazyness is something theyll admit to. Things that does not warrant attention would end up being scrutinized and judged and harshest of words will be exchanged.its PATHETIC!!! A Libran I worked with began the day by removing her coat and airing her daily 20-minute complaint. Cancer is often emotional, needy, and will even cry after insignificant events, even if they see how silly they were acting after the fact. When it comes to you, on the other hand, he isn't reluctant to stand up for you. Think of Mahatma Gandhi. This helped. Cancer: Cancers can not hide their emotions and really cannot control them (for the most part that is). They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. Knowing of her as a libra, I'd expect her to make negotiations and try to change things to her liking, but I'm usually the one having to do that. 2. I'm surrounded by Librans in my family, was married to one for 15 years and I have a strong Libran energy with 4 planets in the 7th house (including sun, mercury and venus). I had left him. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. He had made so many promises to me about the future we had together. Came to help him. What ever happened in her head destroyed her. Keep it light and simple. And I do know many people who fit this above profile but are not Librans and also not related to Libra in general. There's three types of Libra Suns: Libras who have Mercury in Virgo, Libras who have Mercury in Scorpio, and Libras who have Mercury in Libra. 10/17 libra seeking balance on September 06, 2016: I am a Libra male and lately I have been feeling disconnected from myself(sign). As a Libra male, i agree with most of this. Met my wife in early 2000. Sometimes physicall abuse they dont care if your 3 or 95but when they know if anyone else finds out they can get in trouble they know how make them shut up before they even think about it. However, sometimes the Libra man tends to hide his emotions, and it can be difficult to read their energy. Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. As a Libran myself, I can see all my negative traits, for example; A technique that strangely comes naturally to me. She told me she loved me and carried on, even said I was her world, her confidante, her saving grace (Calipreston), then when I started thinking OK maybe there is something here she carried on for weeks, then bam. We can seem very listlessdifficult to make definitive decisions and standards that are near impossible to reach for those in our livesand the world in general. She only wants information to use against them. Second thought about this subjectwe all have negative traits, can't have the positive without the negative. Virgo Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? Over a long period of time, she may find that her life is entirely different than before. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real. I'm fascinated by them. When she is feeling down, she may decide that she needs to end relationships or start new ones. Modern men do not hide their emotions. I married a Libra male for 6 years I was lucky to get only 1 year of child support out of him. This is very true about Libras. other than my mom, i love libras!!! Thats how you deal w a libra. She did nothing. It is overly exaggerated. This describes her to a T. I couldn't wrap my head around it because I'm not like that. But my "dark side" is also my "sunny side". Being a librans family member might be pretty difficult they dont mind providing what they are supposed to provide for the family usually spoiling them, they dont mind spending quality time with their kids and wife. I know a libra and she is very controlling. Most Libras are quick to put a wall up to protect themselves from insecure, jealous, judgemental, negative, condescending people who attack them. It is certain that she will appreciate having someone in her life who will give her a safe place to share the stresses that she is managing. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister. And booooyyyyyy. Seems to be written by someone who had a bad experience with a Libran and conluded that all Librans are like that one scumbag they once knew..horrible. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. At my request of clarification he said "oh well he doesn't like certain things, like when I play a bit with him, he gets furious". Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. However, you shouldn't forget that Libras are assholes and don't buy their shit, unless you test them. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. My best advice for anybody is know thyself it is OK to not care or like people and not be friendly. Oh! They are the most hypocritical people, will never hear the truth from them. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. They thrive on making things orderly and aesthetically pleasing. When sadness tips that balance. He also took me around by car to show wonderful places etc. This can harm their relationship with others. This may cause her to decide that she should abstain from making major decisions. If i started talking excitedly about what i was learning and even invited her to class, she was cold, uncaring and uninterested (this is the woman who maxes out credit cards at cheap clothing shops..). This person adores the idea of being in a couple and sharing their deepest feelings with the person they love. Diplomatic, graceful, charming and even witty! And I don't want to become a mother after all I read here , It's a big responsibility that I can't handle I'm very fragile and need someone to constantly take care of me. Yes we can be lazy, but if its its something were definitely interested in were quick to run to it and work hard at it! Fang you at this point. Librans might speak kindly in public, but even the best ones do not really believe others have feelings or brains. Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. The Universal Law Of One.would suggest that these are people are mirroring qualities you possess but do not like about yourself. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. The Native American totem of the Libran time frame is the Raven. They are the best at putting on a good social front, especially at parties and board meetings. The UKs WORST politicians are librans: Thatcher, Cameron and May. I am the oldest daughter in my family I have 2 Libra sisters they only see their pain, their personal gain. Sagittarius' bubbly and outgoing personality is put on hold when they get depressed, causing them to feel lethargic and sometimes even use substances to escape their reality. After the beginning of the year she started being more flirtatious. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. Commenting is something I don't do often, because it might throw me off the balance that I am so precious about haha, but once in blue moon I take risks and considering the topic I feel like it's worth a go. No one believes he's got so many dark secrets in his life but only the very close ones to him, like his ex-wife who I learned, only once they got divorced, that he was very aggressive to her indoors. That would be my control issue. but im not fake and i dont try to control her life. And sometimes I just make fun of people- for instance if they make racist comments and I'm just having a beer on Sunday night, instead of punching them in the face I get this attitude of smiling from ear to ear, looking them straight in the eye and and making them feel like shit. Libra (September 23 - October 22) Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. I was married to a Virgo woman, one who heavily did the virgo thing which is pessimistically driven to chastise and be judgmental to the end. One of the typical tactic of abusers things he did was try to "isolate" me from my friends and family. Visit SAMHSA's website, or call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or 1-800-273-TALK (8255). (1) his sister's name is completely different than mine. Let's be honest ladies and gentlemen, you weren't here to read about 1000 reasons why people should love us librans.. you just got a dose of reality, live with it. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. If you're giving him mixed signals, he's likely to hide his feelings even more. I can't with him I just like his attractiveness. The verbal abuse was ridiculous. So you can imagine how short lived the relationships are. Everything in this article rings true. I learned the term for what Libras do to create this unnecessary drama it's called TRIANGULATION! But when i was over it. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy. A Libra mom still reminds her 50-year-old daughters to say thank you.. Should she be pressed, then she may behave in a manner that removes herself from that person's presence. So maybe he's still a paedophile and that can't be changed. But charming when she wants info from us. We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self. How To Impress Libra Men? This is spot on. Reading all of these negative, hateful comments about Libras makes me wonder. This can harm their relationship with others. Also as soon they breakup with you and have someone else in their life, they wont let you go that fast because they want to track every step of you, and they hate confrontation but love drama. How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? Many Librans are flakey, fake and one sign you must immediately set boundaries for or elseheed my warning -. I went along with it till one day I said something to him and he blew up saying Im criticizing him which left me in shock. Started playing head games until we finally got head to head and she said no I never did that, we are just friends. The list of behaviors below will help you realize how to make a Libra woman happy. (hard to believe I know, aloof shits like us actually occasionally listen) It doesn't just dissappear. The usually-carefree Pisces can get into a gloom and doom state when sad. Its not that I love the Libra guy. This is, of course, not ideal because the people around them don't know when a Libra's feelings are hurt. She is the most flaky and fake person i know. It was an extremely difficult task. Buts its a ruse. Dont tell libras your secrets or anything. yes, avoiding confrontation is not a tenable objective and will lead to outbursts (what's term in the title- yes, repressed); people born in October avoid confrontation, no = can't be proven. I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. I am afraid of settling down with someone. But as anyone who has dated Libras will know, they can also be very jealous and possessive. Once they see that another can give better, they will give themselves over to another (but they wont leave you, ever. But I've also tried to genuinely fix my mistakes and repair the damage I cause because of my behavior. Lying from the little things to the big things, both white lies to black lies. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. They are manipulators, competitive sickeningly beneath the surface. I wonder what she is saying behind my back. Mmm chocolate. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. A Libra man's falling in love signs will be subtle at first. Often people see a completely different picture of us that it actually not how we feel inside. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. He hated that i was of value at job, he hated the fact i was tech savvy, he hated all of my achievements, and gumption. But I can agree when there's a negative personality and it's fixated on the sign some ppl are going to agree. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. Most Emotionally Strong Zodiac Signs. Those born on cusps etc, may be very different than the normal Libra. As an aquarius, I usually like some time for peace and space, but she keeps getting in my business and always knows how to aggravate me. A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. That Libra/Leo thing was just ugly - self important, secretly power crazed, a seducer, and let's not forget, she's a Cusp of Virgo Libra. It will make them seems like all is a playful and innocents relations that they have and its you, the bad guy, who fucks them over). I think that is just right when etiquette is concern. she would rage out. By Samantha Maffucci Written on Dec 16, 2021. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. So heres my opinion on us (Librans.). That gut feeling is what actual makes us feel human, not the thoughts or beliefs we have, because they can often lie and the heart we have, even if it's synthetic or artificial can't. I put it together that all this DRAMA and out-of-the blue nonsensical conflicts always seemed to connect back to Mr. Libra 2, He was always the mutual link. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. I've been taken advantage a o lot by just caring too much and i get furious i throw all that hate in my family witch they do not deserve it .but at the end family is my home is when i want people to understand me, to listen me when im angry when im sad when i need a advise .we need to take care of ourselves but we do not do it because we put in priority others . I've been blessed with a moon in Leo, for all of those with Leo in their charts, you know that means firey devotion on a different scale. But disagreements. She has stabbed me in the back, talks about me, others in family. I realized that I was obsessed with being in love and finding someone who loves me and takes interest in me, and goes the extra mile for me. I have a Libra "friend" that I grew up with and I thought she was the nicest person but now I realize how untrue that is. Obviously, we have our cons, on which I can speak myself. I was a fool sheltering her from all her accusers but they were actually right all along. They are also intuitive about the future and have an uncanny ability to read people for clues about what they may want or need. My dark side is usually regret which I've been told is the cancer of life. When I say Mr. Libra 2 was pursuing me, it was LOVEBOMBING!!! RELATED: What Happens When A Libra Is Hurt? Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. Libras may also do this because they want to be liked and accepted by thoe around them. Although, they feel pain and are disappointed at their situation, their charm and their ability to maintain a peace of mind gets them to move on and find someone who can heal their broken heart. Answer The Lion's Paw- A Libra is ruled by their emotions and intuition. When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me. How can two people who are different yet the same say the same thing about me? I hide my negative emotions and just keep it. Yes and no as a libra it's easier to show negative emotions than positive it's kinda complicated, we feel things really deeply and are sensitive but we don't really show it much.. the most genuine reactions from us is anger, sadness and anxiety. The other two Libras were two different guys at my college who literally went 20 miles out of their way to pursue me (and later stalked) me after I rejected them, ended communications. But when they do, I have this urge to feel responsible and take on the guilt and blame. The determined, level-headed Capricorn can become the complete opposite when depressed. When that happens, I've learned to respect myself and just move on. Normally with a libra when they have a fight with a friend they think they cant trust anyone but when the tears stop they over think and the tears come back but its best to let them be and most likely they will forgive you after and it might become a cycle that they cant stop unless people treat them differently, Libras are very nice,loyal,friends that will STAY by your side once you are very close friends the first couple steps with a libra might be hard for them because they find it hard to talk to new people they would rather stay near someone they know, Yes the rumours are true 100% libras HATE being alone they cant stand it that they will either 1.turn it into emotions and cry because they are sensitive 2.they will either do anything to not be alone but if they get left alone with no one for a while they will begin to over think and trust NO ONE at all 3.sit there and think a lot about the situation, The bad side of a libra I already know they do lie but the main 3 reasons why is because 1.they dont want to be embarrassed 2.for there friendship they will lie 3.they will lie to stop anxiety and overthinking another big thing they might lie about is definitely emotions they will either not want to talk and say they are great when they are 100% not to stop people from thinking they are to sensitive or say they a great when they are not to make the other person not worry about them, If you have a libra friend and they are controlling then Im not sure what you can do but things what you should NOT do is 1.talk over them 2.if you yell at them or be aggressive in any way they will either fight back EXTREMELY HARD or cry because they feel like they are a bad person 3.dont tell them to stop crying and being emotional because it will make it worse also it will make them try not to cry that it hurts so much that they do cry what you should do is 1.be very positive and calm and tell them nice things the way to tell them they are doing the wrong thing is to speak very calmly and take it slowly and after make sure they are ok and engorge them to be positive, A libra Leo,Gemini and a Scorpio will go really bad it might be good but it will end up extremely bad but I hope this helped you just know that libras are full of emotions and love anywhere and everywhere. 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